Life Review: 2018

Holy shit.

That pretty much sums up my 2018.  You may have noticed, I’ve been scarce (again).  Well, you can thank 2018 for that this time.  Let’s recap.

The Good

  • Went to Baltimore and essentially completed my Masters thesis
  • Started bullet journalling
  • Surprised my mom on Mother’s Day
  • Kidlet moved in with us
  • Awesome visit with friends
  • 10 year anniversary with the hubs
  • Had an awesome visit with the whole family
  • New Bean on the way (October)
  • Interviewed my nonprofit role model
  • Led my nonprofit to their most successful event ever
  • Elected as President of a start-up nonprofit
  • Finished several knitting projects

The Bad

  • 5 year anniversary of grandma’s death
  • Got fired
  • Super, super sick
  • Have you seen the state of politics lately?

The Ugly

  • My mom died.

So, yes, Holy Shit is about all you need to know and you instantly understand my 2018.  I’d say I broke even.

There is one silver lining to this whole nightmare: I’ve learned that I am made of freaking diamonds.  I had no idea what I could handle until this year decided I needed to handle everything, pretty much all at the same time.  That whole mom dying, super sick, event managing and getting fired thing happened in the same month, the last three in the same week.  And, yes, I struggled, but I’m still standing nonetheless.

I’d be a fool to say I did it on my own.  Hardly.  I have the most amazing friends and family that anyone could ever hope to have as a support system.  I will be forever grateful to those who held me up when I fell before the finish line.  I couldn’t ask for a better crew.

Finally, a note on 2019.  I’m not challenging you at all.  I really just want to be friends.  If you could cut me some slack next year, that would be the most amazing gift ever.


Book Review: Ticker

Ticker: The Quest to Create an Artificial HeartTicker: The Quest to Create an Artificial Heart by Mimi Swartz

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

“The person who comes up with a way to replace a failing heart with an artificial one, then, will save countless lives and change the future of humankind, much as Louis Pasteur or Sigmund Freud did, or Jonas Salk or Marie Curie. And, of course, the doctor or engineer (or, more likely, the team) who figures out how to make one will likely become very, very rich.”

This is what we are presented with in Ticker: The Quest to Create an Artificial Heart by Mimi Swartz. The book tells the sordid history of a group of surgeons all vying to become the god-like creator of the first artificial heart. Swartz is a stunning and detailed researcher and the book flows well throughout the decades. She starts with the birth of Michael Debakey and Denton Cooley as the “bad boys: of cardiac surgery in Houston. From there, Swartz takes the reader on the stunning and sometimes vaguely unethical battle to be the best, to beat the competition, and to cash in for as much money as humanly possible. My only disappointment is that the book just seemed to end with no conclusion. That could be due to the unfinished tale of the artificial heart but it still could have wrapped up a bit better in my opinion.

I had some knowledge going into the book as my husband’s uncle was on the ground floor of Baylor’s race to be the best in cardiac care but much of the information was new to me. Readers who have grown up in Houston will know the cast of characters and possibly even the history of the cardiac teams that come into play. This book is not for the faint of heart, however. These are real people that have been used as guinea pigs and sometimes, that’s disheartening and upsetting. Know going into it that the early days of heart surgery were akin to the Wild West and not everyone was on the up-and-up.

*I received an advanced copy of this book in exchange for a fair review.*

Happy Holidays


From my family to yours,
A very merry Christmas and a happy, healthy New Year!

Best Wishes,

Anybody Out There?

You may have noticed a new book review popped up on your dashboard from none other than InnatelyKait.  Yes, I’m back ever so briefly.  Grad school is on break and I’m out of work so I finally have time to write those 2338574385 reviews I have waiting in my Goodreads and NetGalley queue.

I haven’t scheduled anything for December 25th or January 1st but you can expect to see reviews every Tuesday and Thursday after that.  I’ll also be chatting about my newish (since April — goodness it’s been a bit) hobby, bullet journalling.  Expect a few game reviews thrown in for good measure.

See you all on the flip-side, friends.


Book Review: One Dumb Guy

The Kids in the Hall: One Dumb GuyThe Kids in the Hall: One Dumb Guy by Paul Myers

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

“Individually, I think we’re all very smart. Just together as a group, we’re really just one dumb guy”- Mark McKinney

This official biography of one of the most influential sketch comedy troupes of all time is fascinating and incredibly well written. Let’s be honest, biography/memoir isn’t a genre that everyone loves; it can be dry and lacking but The Kids in the Hall: One Dumb Guy by Paul Myers is a standout in its category.

Paul Myers delves deep into the history of the troupe starting with how Bruce McCulloch, Mark McKinney, Dave Foley, Kevin McDonald, and Scott Thompson were drawn to comedy as children and teens dealing with traumatic and difficult lives. From there, he take the reader through the KITH’s rise in Toronto’s comedy scene and how their eventual discovery lead to a TV show the likes no one had seen before.

Myers does not mince words — as a long time “member” of The KITH, he knows the ins and outs of their history. and is able to lead the reader through the good times and bad, up to the present day. The KITH are a testament to truly loving your craft, and your friends, even when you hate both.

What make this book great is that The KITH were extensively involved in the production, providing interviews and anecdotes that add to the authenticity. My copy was an ARC version and didn’t include photos, though I hope Myers adds some in the future as they would be fantastic throwbacks. This is a must read for any fan of The Kids in the Hall. I consider myself to be one of their biggest fans and even I learned some new stuff! Don’t miss this one!

*I received an advanced electronic copy of this book courtesy of NetGalley.*