That Time I Was on a Podcast

That time was last night!  Jessica McWilliams , host of Planner Lifestyle Podcast interviewed me last night. We talked Sims, planning, addiction, and more!  There’s even a couple of shout outs in there and I reveal the future of Eternally Yours. Have not listened to it so I probably sound ridiculous.

I was a little bit nervous so it’s entirely possible I sound ridiculous.  Thanks, Jess, for inviting me to nerd out with you!

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First of the Month BuJo Update: May 2019

It’s that time again, friends!  A new month means new bullet journal spreads!  Let’s get right to it!

HAHA!  My photos aren’t crap this month!  They also aren’t super sleek like some bloggers but, hey, it’s the last week of grad school so we’re calling this good.

April Recap

April fell the fuck apart.  There is no other way to say it.  Between traveling for my kid’s spring break, a blizzard, and then coming down with that God-awful plague that everyone seemed to get April just never quite got off the ground.

My Line a Day page sums up the last half of the month pretty well.  I pretty much gave up on my meal tracker and line a day.  Most of my daily and weekly pages are empty.  I’m ok with that.  Before my PTSD diagnosis, I probably would have freaked out and tried to push myself to get every line and every box filled in but this time I just…didn’t?  And it felt freaking amazing!  To just say to myself “that can wait, you can’t” was a huge step in my healing process (I might be getting teary as I write this) and I’m so proud of myself for having a half-empty month.

Self-care BINGO was hit-and-miss.  I got a little too ambitious with some of my goals but I managed to get one BINGO which resulted in a trip to Starbucks.

Ok, on to the May update…

Theme:

Given my struggles in April, May’s theme got put on the back burner.  Ended up going with “Growth” because “April showers bring May flowers” was too much for me and Graduation was too…well gray and black.  I have a ton of green, leafy washi so we’ve got vines, and fields, and some flowers but not a ton.  Anyway, pretty pleased with how this came out.  Not perfect but I’m learning to let go of the perfection.

Spreads:

May starts off the same way as my other bujos: cover page, monthly, goals, and habits.  I wanted to try something new this month to give me a more holistic view of what’s going on in my life.

Being out of work since November, I’ve really had to crack down on my spending.  The budget tracker is back because it really is a godsend.  I still have some spending issues but I managed to spend less in April than I did in March so YAY!  I’m confident I can be even more proactive with my spending this month.

I’m still working on using my meal planner religiously.  I have another appointment with the dietitian this month so that’s a good motivator to be on top of my food.

Self-care BINGO is back!  I had a blast with it in April but like I said, I was too ambitious.  This month I revised some of my goals and just left a bunch blank until I can think of some good items to drop into the squares.

OMG — I will have time to read again in a week!  Maybe I will actually fill up my reading list for the month!?

Then we get back into my “normal” spreads.  I combined my Line A Day and Gratitude spreads into one journaling page.  I upped my creativity on my Currently recap by hand-drawing that sucker (there’s something to be said of the printable though).  Finally, my Wins/Losses page finishes the tracking spreads and we head into my weeklies and dailies.

Final Thoughts:

Avoid the plague.

Supplies for March:

  • Pilot Precise V5 Deco Collection Rolling Ball Pens
  • Pilot FriXion Ball Slim Retractable
  • Craft Smith™ Wonton In A Million™ Sticker Book, Budget 1
  • Craft Smith™ Sweet Kawaii Design™ Sticker Book, Home Life
  • Happy Planner, Farmhouse Stickers
  • Krissyanne Designs, Celebrate Life Stickers
  • Zebra Pen Mildliner

First of the Month BuJo Update: April 2019

It’s that time again, friends!  A newish month means new bullet journal spreads!  Let’s get right to it!

So again, we’ve got some lame photos in here because I was traveling the first week of April (hence why this is also posted on the 12th and not the 1st — oops) so everything was done in a hurry.  I mean, just last night I filled in my bills tracker so that’s where my life is at this month.

March Recap

March went mostly well.  The new meal tracker was pretty much a win and helped me see that I wasn’t eating enough snacks during the day.  Also, I was pretty lazy some days and didn’t even bother filling it in so it also helped me figure out that I’m still pretty much a lazy bum when it comes to using my Bujo every day.

My TV/Movie tracker was maybe not my best idea.  I don’t watch that much TV so I don’t really know what I was thinking.  Instead it was more of a tracker for TV shows that I already knew I liked (Golden Girls, anyone?) and ended up being mostly useless.  That page got scrapped this month but more on that later.

Finally, the book tracker.  Ugh.  That was a fail so I simplified that this month, too.

Ok, on to the April update…

Theme:

I discovered I had a bunch of washi and stickers that related to rain so this month is “April Showers” themed.  Stickers are from all over the place so they are hard to credit.  Please drop a comment if you want to know a specific one.  The little birds and rain clouds are from Michael’s and come from a $1 sticker pack they sold last year.  There’s lots of Happy Planner in there as well!

Spreads:

April starts off the same way as my other bujos: cover page, monthly, goals, and habits.  I wanted to try something new this month to give me a more holistic view of what’s going on in my life.

Being out of work since November, I’ve really had to crack down on my spending.  The budget and spending trackers I introduced last month were amazing.  They did help curb my sticker addiction but I realized I still buy waaaaaaay too much crap I don’t need.  They are back again this month as a reminder that I really don’t need that much craft paper (said no one ever)..

I’m still working on using my meal planner religiously.  So far I’ve already forgotten most of this week.  I’m off to a rocking start.

Because my Netflix/Hulu spread bombed and I was recently diagnosed with PTSD (more on that another time), I added a “Self-Care Bingo” spread to the mix.  I’m so bad at taking care of me, ya’ll.  Yet I regularly speak about the importance of self-care to others.  So I’m upping my game.  I haven’t quite figured out what my Bingo prize will be but I’m pretty sure it will be awesome (or maybe it will just be less stress which is also awesome).

My reading spread last month was…well, ambitious.  Was I ever going to read a bazillion books in a month?  No.  I simplified this month to make me feel less anxious about not reading all the books.  I also removed the section for tracking followers because that was far too tedious for my tiny time schedule.

Then we get back into my “normal” spreads.  I combined my Line A Day and Gratitude spreads into one journaling page.  I upped my creativity on my Currently recap by hand-drawing that sucker (there’s something to be said of the printable though).  Finally, my Wins/Losses page finishes the tracking spreads and we head into my weeklies and dailies.

Final Thoughts:

I’m not skilled at using my journal daily.  MUST GET BETTER!

Supplies for March:

  • Pilot Precise V5 Deco Collection Rolling Ball Pens
  • Pilot FriXion Ball Slim Retractable
  • Craft Smith™ Wonton In A Million™ Sticker Book, Budget 1
  • Craft Smith™ Sweet Kawaii Design™ Sticker Book, Home Life
  • Zebra Pen Mildliner

Book Review: The Valedictorian of Being Dead

The Valedictorian of Being Dead: The True Story of Dying Ten Times to LiveThe Valedictorian of Being Dead: The True Story of Dying Ten Times to Live by Heather B. Armstrong

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Holy cow. This book.

The Valedictorian of Being Dead is Heather Armstrong’s story of recovery and it’s powerful. She’s long been known as a “mommy blogger” over at Dooce and has shared her life with readers for years. However, following her divorce and bitter custody, Armstrong actively worked to keep her crippling depression secret from everyone but her mother. With nothing working and no other options, she decides to try an experimental treatment meant to reset her brain by nearly killing it.

The book is well written though conversational — think of it as an extended blog post. Armstrong is both poignant and hilarious and I found myself laughing out loud and openly sobbing over the course of the book. It’s a quick read and I finished it in just a few hours. The writing is very detailed and some readers might not understand why Armstrong writes about the sound of shoes on the floor or the overpowering feeling of exhaustion. It’s almost something one has to have lived to understand.

The Valedictorian of Being Dead hit closer to home than I anticipated. While I don’t suffer from clinical depression, I do suffer from chronic illness and I’ve been having more flare-ups since December 2018. I know what it’s like to look down the tunnel and there’s no light. I know what it’s like to wonder “Is this all there is?” I know what it feels like to want to be dead. I know all these things and my heart goes out to everyone who fights this battle Every. Damn. Day.

This is a fantastic book for family members who don’t understand but want to learn more about the struggle faced by those with mental or chronic illness. Bottom line — this is a good book. It’s an important book. It’s a must read from me.

First of the Month BuJo Update: March 2019

It’s that time again, friends!  A new month means new bullet journal spreads!  Let’s get right to it!

These are not the best photos I’ve ever taken but I was honestly too excited about my March spreads to worry about getting the perfect photos!

Alright.  March is the beginning of a new journal.  I’m using the LT1917 in “Sand” this time around.  It was a little odd since it’s an older version of the LT1917 so I had to realign my spreads.  More on that in another post.  Let’s get down to the meat of this one.

Theme:

I’m not a huge fan of the traditional “St. Patrick’s Day” and green is my least favorite color.  I went an unconventional route: Firefly!  I grabbed some space themed washi tapes from Amazon and Michael’s.  I was able to grab all the Firefly-themed stickers from Redbubble and they are amazing.  I was able to pull them up and re-position the stickers several times without tearing the paper.  I highly recommend Redbubble for your sticker needs!

Spreads:

March starts off the same way as my other bujos: cover page, monthly, goals, and habits.  I wanted to try something new this month to give me a more holistic view of what’s going on in my life.

Being out of work since November, I’ve really had to crack down on my spending.  To make things more fun, my student loans are coming out of their grace period.  Welcome, budget and spending trackers.  I’m hoping this will help me manage my sticker addiction loan repayment goals and I’ll have a better grasp on where my money goes each month.

The next new spread is the meal planner.  I’ve developed some fun blood sugar issues and need to stay on top of what I’m eating each day.  Plus as a new stay-at-home-mom, I’m in charge of planning all our meals so what better way that dropping it in my bullet journal.

The final new additions are the Netflix/Hulu tracker and my book spreads.  Since I’ve got the tiniest bit of spare time on my hands, I’ve taken to watching some new shows on Netflix and Hulu (Umbrella Academy, anyone!?) and I wanted to note what I liked and didn’t like.  I’m notoriously picky when it comes to my TV and movies.  My book spread is pretty self explanatory.  I read a lot (that’s kind of the point of this blog) and I wanted to track my progress over the month.

Then we get back into my “normal” spreads.  I combined my Line A Day and Gratitude spreads into one journaling page.  I upped my creativity on my Currently recap by hand-drawing that sucker (there’s something to be said of the printable though).  Finally, my Wins/Losses page finishes the tracking spreads and we head into my weeklies and dailies.

Final Thoughts:

We’ll see how this goes.  I’m more of a to do list person which is what pulled me into bullet journaling in the first place.  I’ll check back in at the end of the month with a spread update!

Supplies for March:

  • Glitzy Planet Glitter Washi Tape By Recollections
  • Molshine Set of 8 Galaxy Washi Tape
  • Redbubble Firefly Stickers
  • Leuchtturm1917 Hardcover Medium A5 Dotted Notebook [Sand]
  • Pilot Precise V5 Deco Collection Rolling Ball Pens
  • Pilot FriXion Ball Slim Retractable
  • Craft Smith™ Wonton In A Million™ Sticker Book, Budget 1
  • Craft Smith™ Sweet Kawaii Design™ Sticker Book, Home Life
  • Zebra Pen Mildliner